The concept of Hygge (loosely translated as coziness) which is often thought of as relaxing with friends or loved ones, enjoying good food and drink, creating a relaxing atmosphere, the glow of candles. Social interaction and free time are given strong emphasis in Denmark. The Danes tend to work significantly fewer hours than the rest of the world and thus have a refreshing work-life balance. Work identity is not so ego bound in Denmark.
Danes also have a cultural norm called naervaer which translates into being mindful and present. It talks of appreciating simple pleasures and of living in the ‘now’. I think this too is very much in contrast with Western and North American culture which focuses more upon the future (striving for a better future) and wanting more (thus dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation for what one has now). I think that this ancient scripture speaks beautifully of this concept.
Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable
but it is the way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary Life.
Show them the joy of tasting
tomatoes, apples and pears.
Show them how to cry
when pets and people die.
Show them the infinite pleasure
in the touch of a hand.
And make the ordinary come alive for them.
The extraordinary will take care of itself.
Tao Te Ching
(from Piece of Danish Happiness, Sharmi Albrechtsen)